If you and your loved one have been married for years, it might be time to consider spicing things up in your sex life. Here are a few ideas you can try the next time you get busy in the bedroom:
- Do it more often: The more often you and your partner have sex, the more likely you are to improve on the parts that you both enjoy. Your sexual well-being depends on you connecting as a couple and exploring what you both enjoy. As they say, practice makes perfect.
- Novelty: Nothing can make your sex life more interesting than by changing things up. Introduce different sexual aids such as a personal lubricant or arousal gel. Vary where you and your partner make love – don't reserve your activities to just the bedroom and utilize the rest of your home. Wear different outfits for each other and vary your foreplay. No matter what you choose to include in your sex life, make sure to take your time and ensure that both of you walk away satisfied and happy.
- Role play: If you and your partner have been married for years, you are well acquainted with not only their bodies but how they respond to you in bed. Role playing is a great way to make sex a kind of two person theater, where you can both share and act out your deepest sexual fantasies with each other. A vast majority of people have their own personal fantasies, and you can use them to explore the different aspects of yourself. Creating characters for you and your partner is an excellent way to loosen you both up in bed, focusing all of your energy on the other person.