If you have been married to your spouse for a significant amount of time, you have likely noticed that your sex life is not as active as it once was. This is nobody's fault, really, but life can often get in the way, leaving you with less time to be in bed together. But the truth is that a healthy sex life is the key to a happy and successful marriage, which is why it is so important for you and your partner to find the time to be in bed together and break out of any rut that you might find yourself in.
Here are a few tips for spicing things up in bed:
- Be spontaneous: When it comes to sex, you don't have to stick to the same positions and schedule that you always have in the past. Try mixing up when you sleep together or where, and you will find that the spontaneity will help bring a spark back into the activities.
- Dress for each other: You shouldn't be just wearing your old pair of sweatpants into bed if you want to be together. Try dressing up a little bit for the other person and you will see things pick back up.
- Show affection: It can be all too easy to take somebody in your life for granted, especially if you have been together for a number of years. But one of the best ways to improve what you do in the bedroom is to show the other person how much you care for them outside of the bedroom. Kissing and hugging often can go a long way.