When it comes to long distance relationships, they have gotten a bad reputation over the last few years. Conventional wisdom seems to say that, if you are away from your significant other for substantial parts of time, your relationship will inevitably fall apart. While this situation certainly has its pitfalls – as any marriage can – the truth is that it is completely manageable. Even if this is not ideal, you both need to be absolutely committed to loving each other and being there for the other, even if you are separated by hundreds or thousands of miles.
Here are a few tips for making your long distance love successful:
- Plan your calls: Communication is key in any relationship, but becomes even more important when you cannot be with your significant other. Be sure to set aside time each day or week where you two can get on the phone or computer to talk with each other, even if it just about the mundane events of your work day.
- Send care packages: Even if it isn't a holiday or special occasion, you can still show your partner that you are thinking about them by sending little care packages filled with mementos or other items that will remind them of you.
- Visit: Being in the same place at the same time is the most crucial piece of advice we can offer. As often as you can one of you needs to travel to where the other person is. Nothing beats actually being with your partner, so try and switch off who hops on the train or plane to make the situation as equal and fair as possible.
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