When it comes to your wedding day, planning out every last detail can be an overwhelming and stressful experience, even if you are getting help and expert opinions every step of the way. While most women and men are focused on the number of guests, seating arrangements and what courses to serve for dinner, the wedding night can often be an overlooked detail. Just making it through the ceremony and reception without anything going wrong is stressful enough, without having to worry about what happens after.
Here are a few tips to ensure that your wedding night sex is a memorable experience:
- Don't over think everything: While most couples will have had sex with each other before getting married, there can always be a little bit of pressure for the act to be different now that you are a married couple. Stop worrying and planning out each little moment, but instead just be present with each other and go with the flow.
- Massage: As we said above, your wedding day is going to be equal parts joyful and stressful. Everybody knows that stress can be a total mood-killer, so you need to do your best to ensure that you and your partner are in the right frame of mind. A relaxing massage can help ease away any of the leftover tension or anxiety.
- Slow down: You want these moments together to be special, so be sure to slow down and really enjoy each other. "There are specific techniques for both the bride and groom to slow down sex," Dr. Becky Spelman, We-Vibe.com's relationship expert, tells Daily Star. Take the time to practice slow and mindful sex.
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