When it comes to enjoying some time with your partner between the sheets, it can feel as if everything has become a bit routine. This is especially true if you have been with your significant other for a number of years and you want to look for ways to kick things up in the bedroom. In order to do this, you and your partner just need to make the commitment to change things up a bit, even if there is nothing wrong with your sex life. As they say, variety is the spice of life!
Here are a few simple ways to recharge your sex life and rediscover each other:
- Have a regular date night: If you are often swamped with other areas of your life – appointments, work, the kids – it is important that you make time for each other. At least once a week you should have a night set aside that is entirely for the two of you, without any outside distractions or problems. Focus on each other both in and out of the bedroom.
- Leave the house: One of the reasons that your sex life can become routine is that you are always in your bedroom. To counteract this, simply get busy in places that are not your home. Even if you are just sneaking off to a local hotel for an afternoon or night stay, a new environment can really get things heating up!
- Redecorate the bedroom: In order to change things up in the bedroom, you should first change your immediate surroundings. "The bedroom does build up a lot of mundane associations," sex therapist Louanne Cole Weston tells WebMD. "But if you can do anything to transform your bedroom into something new and different, that can make a big difference."
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