It is all too easy to let your sex life become mundane or repetitive, especially if you are married or in a long-term relationship. While you certainly still love your partner, life can get in the way, with sex becoming an afterthought to everything else that needs to get done throughout the day. However, you can help break this pattern and spice things up in your bedroom, as long as you can recognize the habits you need to break and make your activities fresh and exciting once again.
Here are a few common issues to avoid boredom in the bedroom:
- Disregarding the other person: The longer you are in a relationship, the easier it can be to take the other person for granted. This is a terrible attitude to have in the bedroom, so make sure that you are particularly attentive to your significant other's wants and needs.
- Not having enough time: Trying to fit in sex when you have a few short minutes in between school and your kids' extracurriculars will not make for a fun or romantic time. Don't rush being with your spouse, but instead choose a time when you two can relax and truly appreciate one another.
- Relying on the same moves: Even if there is a certain style you and your partner really enjoy, you should do your best to mix things up as much as possible. You don't want to go to the same well over and over again, only to eventually get bored of what has kept you satisfied for this long.